• Home
  • About
  • Work with Me
  • Books
    • The Writer’s Block Myth
    • Flight, A Novel
      • Writing Flight, a Novel
  • Blog
  • Contact

← Previous Next →

Show Up. Say Yes

Posted on March 31, 2017 by Heloise Jones

“80% of life is showing up”
~ Woody Allen

Woody Allen is famous for that quote. It was 1977, a dual interview with Marshall Brickman, the co-author of the oscar-winning screenplay Annie Hall. It’d morphed to 80% of ‘success’ is showing up when it came on my radar. The legend that he was talking about luck.

In a 1989 interview, Woody Allen reflected on it:

“I made the statement years ago which is often quoted that 80 percent of life is showing up.
People used to always say to me that they wanted to write a play, they wanted to write a movie,
they wanted to write a novel, and the couple of people that did it
were 80 percent of the way to having something happen.”

I admit I’m a purpose & wonder driven person. It carries me when it’s hard doing things that don’t make sense in the web of my known world. Or I have things to accomplish I don’t want to do. This doesn’t mean I need a reason for everything. It means I know what expands my Universe, gives me the Yes I need to move forward.

See for yourself what I mean. Take 30 seconds (really, that’s it!). You don’t need to go anywhere. Put on music, or turn the phone off. Just get present for 30 short seconds, and close your eyes if it feels easier.

  • Think of something you agreed to do that you didn’t want to do. A definite No if you felt you had a choice.

Where do you feel it inside your body?
How does it feel?
What about in your mind? What emotions come up?

  • Now, do the same thing with something you felt a Yes to.

How does that feel inside your body?
Where do you feel it?
What does your mind do with a Yes? What emotions are there?

  • Write down what you felt. Interesting, eh?

I write about doing what answers Yes in The Writer’s Block Myth because Yes expands everything about you. Your insides. Your experience. Your creativity. And No contracts.

In life, we constantly dancie with creativity, no matter what we’re doing. Expand the dance floor, and expand our definition of what creative means. Do what answers Yes.

The tulips in the picture above never opened like I wanted them to. But they’ve shown up perky and bright yellow every minute for a week. Haven’t faded or wilted. A vibrant reminder for so many things, including letting go of expectations. Another thing I write about,  because it’s a biggie.

Show up to your writing, your art, your work, your life. Find the thing you respond to, that carries you thru the hard times. The thing that answers Yes when you’re in doubt. For me, it’s purpose & wonder. What is it for you?

And if you’re interested in the progression of the quote, here’s a great site, The Quote Investigator. I have it bookmarked for others.

*

Like what you read? Sign up for updates in your inbox.

Click here to subscribe

I work with people who have a vision & desire to write.
Sound like you?
Go Here.

Want to keep going to the last page?

Get. It. Here.

This entry was posted in family, life, spirit, writers, writing by Heloise Jones. Bookmark the permalink.

3 thoughts on “Show Up. Say Yes”

  1. Becky Brandon on April 1, 2017 at 4:13 pm said:

    This is so good. And I like the quote from Woody Allen. Something he does that makes sense to me: putting out a movie a year. Just keep working. Even if there is praise, or blame…just keep working. Having a new project planned is a great way to “get over it.”

    Reply ↓
    • Heloise Jones on April 1, 2017 at 4:27 pm said:

      I’m glad this spoke to you! I think this is one of the things we all struggle with, especially living our lives in the ‘real’ world. Since you and I have talked, I know you show up to your writing, experiment, explore your writer’s Voice, so I hope this is an affirmation for you to keep going. Yea You!

      Reply ↓

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

A Few Favorite Books

Bel Canto, Ann Patchett
The Size of the World, Joan Silber
The Sheltering Sky, Paul Bowles
The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Milan Kundera
Enemy Women, Paulette Jiles
The Last Report on the Miracles at Little No Horse, Louise Erdrich
One Foot in Eden, Ron Rash
Benedictus, John O'Donohue
In Search of Kinship, Page Lambert
The Mists of Avalon, Marion Zimmer Bradley
The Cider House Rules, John Irving
Under the Tuscan Sun, Frances Mayes
The Orchid Thief, Susan Orlean
On Writing, Stephen King
The Conversations, Michael Ondaatje

Poets!

Maya Stein, Stanley Kunitz, David Whyte, Louise Erdrich, Mary Oliver, Naomi Shihab Nye, Tracey Schmidt, Hafitz, Brian Andreas, Jamie K. Reaser, Enid Shomer, Terrance Hayes, & many more

The Writer’s Block Myth

The Writer’s Block Myth
A Guide to Get Past Stuck & Experience Lasting Creative Freedom.

Get it now!

Archives

As seen on
As seen on
Get in touch

Home | about me | work with me | best offers | blog | event | connect
Photo Credits [ Heloise: Ken Wilson ]
© 2025 HeloiseJones.com - All rights reserved.

MENU
  • Home
  • About
  • Work with Me
  • Books
    • The Writer’s Block Myth
    • Flight, A Novel
      • Writing Flight, a Novel
  • Blog
  • Contact